Do you and your partner or spouse struggle with a clash of values? Do you find yourself in frequent disagreements, arguments, or fights and are looking to tackle the root cause of them for good? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how you and your partner can overcome your disagreements and actually get to the bottom of what’s causing them. They discuss what to do when your values are different from your partners, how to properly handle disagreements, when and how to persuade your partner, and how to be open to your partner’s perspective.
Collision | Lisa and Tom discuss what to do when your values of your partner are different. [0:20]
Values | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to break down your most important values. [2:15]
Compromise | Lisa and Tom discuss how to properly handle disagreements. [4:51]
Convincing | Lisa and Tom discuss when it is and isn’t time to convince your partner. [7:03]
Be Open | Tom and Lisa discuss why you have be open to your partner’s side. [9:40]
“When there’s a collision of values, you have to get into a situation where each of you are assessing the importance to which that value means something to you and where the compromise lies.” [5:09]
“…and that’s a big thing, it’s like, not thinking about it of winning an argument, or being right, or getting what I want…” [8:45]