Does your partner have ambitious goals but lacks the motivation to act on making them happen? Does it pain you to see your partner holding themselves back from the life they dream about having? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how you can push your partner into a motivated state so they start accomplishing their goals and creating the life they want for themselves. They discuss how to motivate your partner, why rewarding your partner is powerful, why you should be able to have open communication, and why the problem might be that you have different work ethics.
Action | Lisa and Tom discuss motivating your partner to take action towards their goals. [0:05]
Reward | Lisa and Tom discuss how you should reward your partner to motivate them. [6:07]
Talk Through It | Lisa and Tom discuss why you should speak with an open heart. [8:43]
Partnership | Lisa and Tom discuss how they each approach work differently. [11:49]
“…always, always, always, whenever you can do it through reward, do it through reward. Because they feel like that wonderful-warm sensation about the person that’s rewarding them.” [1:55]
“…and then sometimes you just have to trigger people’s emotions — because they don’t hear it until that point. But I’m telling you, if you lead with that, it will damage the relationship.” [3:28]