Are you and your partner on the same page when it comes to the expectations in your relationship? Do you or your partner feel certain needs aren’t being met and there are feelings of inadequacy creeping in? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to smooth out expectations in your relationship so that everyone’s needs are met while soothing any feelings of inadequacy. They discuss how to address expectations, what the goal of every relationship should be, and how to be reasonable when setting and discussing expectations.
Expectations | Tom and Lisa discuss how to address your feelings of inadequacy. [0:44]
Be Reasonable | Tom and Lisa discuss how to know if expectations are reasonable or not. [3:52]
“One of the most fundamental driving forces of a relationship is to make sure that you’re making that person feel better about themselves when they’re with you than when they’re not — but never doing that by bullshitting them. So you’re always being completely real and completely honest.” [4:25]