You want to give the world to your partner. But you don´t have the money to do so?
Sure, gifts such as roses, necklaces, or being able to fulfill financial dreams are beautiful things, but the best gift you can´t buy with money. What your partner really wants is not the world, but something else and probably not what you think. In this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share why money is not the most important thing in a relationship and how they managed the time in their lives when they had no money at all. Now you have the chance to learn easily what they had to learn with great difficulty to make their relationship last for over 20 years. After you watch this episode, you´ll know how Tom handled being in a bad financial situation when he first met Lisa. How Lisa reframed not having money, to find joy in the situation, and why getting rich will not solve your relationship problems and the one thing that makes all the difference. Furthermore, you´ll know what you can give instead of money which is way more powerful and much more.
Why Tom thinks relationships have nothing to do with being financially free. [1:25]
How Tom handled being in a bad financial situation when he met Lisa.” [2:20]
Why being ashamed of your financial situation shouldn´t hold you back from love. [3:08]
How Lisa reframed not having money, to find joy in it. [3:42]
The only thing you should be ashamed of and two things you should never worry about. [4:10]
The most amazing gift we can have in our lives. [4:40]
Why getting rich will not solve your relationship problems and the one thing that makes all the difference. [5:03]
Why not having money doesn´t say anything about you. [5:23]
This is what you can give instead of money which is way more powerful. [5:41]
“Until the day you´ll die you´re in the middle of your journey.” [1:27]
“I was actually excited at that time to be a part of that journey, I guess because we always had our sight set on the big goal.” [3:53]
“There are two things you should never ever worry about or be ashamed. One, the things you cannot change. Two, The things you can change.” [4:23]
“You´re not gonna get rich and say: “Now all my problems are solved.” [5:03]