Tom and Lisa

Crucial Questions to Ask That Will Align You and Your Partner's Values

By October 30, 2020 Relationship Theory

Are you and your partner on the same page when it comes to values in your relationship? Do you wonder how you can be more aligned and have a shared ‘mission’ for your life together? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore ways you and your partner can get on the same page and have a full understanding of your relationships values and goals. They discuss how to lead by example in a relationship, the power of sharing your values with your partner, why you should write down the reasoning behind your values, and why you need to be aligned with your partner when it comes to values in the first place.


Leading | Lisa and Tom share how to get your partner to also lead with a growth mindset. [0:21]

Values | Lisa and Tom discuss the importance of being on the same page as your partner. [2:45]

Reasons | Lisa and Tom discuss the power of writing down your values in a relationship. [4:30]

Aligning | Lisa and Tom share how they would align their values to be on the same page. [5:48]


“We’re not on the same page, but we’re committed to getting on the same page, but we’re going to be really raw, honest, and truthful about how far apart we are right now. Not lie or bullshit, what’s the actual bit of common ground?” [2:17]

“I think so many people take things for granted. They think that it’s just truth…” [3:12]










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