Tom and Lisa

By September 14, 2020 Relationship Theory

Jealousy. How does it enter our minds, what feeds it, and is it perhaps just a reflection of our own insecurities? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss the harsh reality of confronting your own jealousy in a relationship and why it may actually be a matter of your own insecurities and not their behavior. They discuss the time when Tom and Lisa went together to Tom’s ex-girlfriend’s birthday parties, how they dealt with it, where jealousy originates from, what feeds it, how it is an ugly look, and what to be aware of before jealousy spirals out of control.

SHOW NOTES:

Honesty | Lisa shares her experience when Tom took her to his ex-girlfriend’s birthday party. [0:21]

Establishing Feelings | Tom shares his side of taking Lisa to his ex-girlfriend’s birthday party. [3:11]

Jealousy | Tom and Lisa discuss how buried insecurities feed jealousy. [4:36]

Choose Confidence | Lisa shares why insecurities are a turn off. [8:38]

Harsh Reality | Tom and Lisa discusses why it’s not sexy to wallow in your insecurities. [11:23]

QUOTES:

“You never made me feel like it was a comparison, and you never tried to hide how you felt about them when you were talking about them.” [2:35]

“There are two things you should never worry about: things you can change, because go change em’, and things you can’t change, because you can’t change em’.” [7:37]

“No one looks at someone else’s insecurities and goes, “Yeah, that’s a turn on. That’s attractive.”” [8:38]

FOLLOW TOM:

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FOLLOW LISA:

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